Community Conferences – Bringing along Baby

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  1. We have brought our little guy to lots of events. When he was Isaac’s age we took him to a Pecha Kucha night and did basically the same as you (sat near an exit, wore him in a sling, etc.). Recently I took him to the AGM for our community league. I wore him in an ergo baby carrier and did have to step out a few times due to his noisy babbling, but other than that it went fairly well.

    It is getting a bit more difficult now that Robert is older and more mobile, but we still manage to do quite a lot. Since he is eating solid food now I have a few more tricks up my sleeve to keep him chilled out. Before I was a parent I remember looking down at people who gave their kids packaged food, but now “Baby Mum Mums” and “Puffs” are my go-to snacks when toys and distraction just aren’t cutting it!

    Also, while I used to be more likely to go to an event with just a carrier, I now like to bring along our reclining umbrella stroller. Robert is getting heavy and if it looks like he’s going to fall asleep it is sometimes nice to literally get him off my back (haha) and let him snooze in the stroller.

    And I wholeheartedly agree with your last point! I think that one of the reasons we are able to get out so frequently with Robert is that we have very low expectations and are willing to bail or change plans if things are not working out.
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  2. This year, Arieanna and Ianiv left Aiden behind for NV ’11 (which I think made a lot of sense – I have never talked about this with them, so I’m totally going out on a limb on this one – the only thing Arieanna and I talked about before, during and after Northern Voice was “get the freaking e-book done, get the presentation slides done, and be ready to fly by the seat of our pants on our talk”. So, I have no idea how Arieanna feels about having left Aiden behind. I’m going to assume she felt she would be able to concentrate on our talk without having to worry about Aiden. That’s just assumption.

    I can tell you, though, that your experience (and blogging about it) is a great resource for anyone who wants to bring babies to Northern Voice. As you said, it’s extremely friendly to kids and you better start them geeking out early.

    Also, I loved seeing Isaac in person (ZOMG he is so beautiful – and those eyes, those eyes dammit) and having a chance to hold him. And lunch, SOON.


  3. Whenever I’ve seen Isaac he’s only made quiet/cute noises that couldn’t possibly bother anyone, he seems like a quiet guy in general, so I’m extra impressed at your thoroughness with this.

    Thinking things through? planning? being considerate? being realistic? You two should teach a course to other new parents to make them wise in your ways πŸ™‚

  4. I took Adele to an academic conference in San Diego with me when she was 3.5 months. But, I cheated and also dragged my husband along. Truthfully, they mostly stayed hostage in the hotel room with occasional walks around the resort grounds. She did make it out to some of the social events of the conference, but a science conference is a different atmosphere than a community one for sure, so there wasn’t really a place for her in the talks. The atmosphere was way too professional for that. And since Michael was there, I didn’t really need to have her with me while I was attending talks anyway. But, there were still some things to consider – namely feeding times. Not surprisingly, her nursing schedule didn’t really jive with the coffee breaks and down times, so I often found myself dashing back to the room between talks to pump, then leaving Michael with a bottle of chilled milk on ice (we had no fridge or kitchenette, so we were sterilizing bottles using water boiled in the coffee maker and chilling them in the ice bucket). Usually I’d be running back to the room in a complete panic, thinking I’d find an hysterical baby and over-stressed dad. But, most often, she was passed out in her bassinet, and he was watching movies.
    That experience taught me a lot. First, I learned that I was far, far more baby-brained than I’d originally thought. I found it very difficult to switch back and forth between baby-nurturing and academic-schmoozing, and the latter definitely suffered. Second, bringing an infant along (albeit with a full-time, yet breast-less helper) to a conference in another country was not nearly as hellish as I’d expected it to be. In the end, we made it through unscathed, and I learned that, yes indeed, “everything will be alright”. It really boosted my confidence that I was somehow going to be able to pull my life back together with this little infant in it. And, just last week, I went to another academic conference in Quebec all by myself, leaving Adele and Michael here in Vancouver. So, proof there that you do eventually get to fulfill your grown-up needs πŸ™‚

  5. I’m always afraid of doing something new with the girls. Although I haven’t been to any conferences (ha, nor can I imagine doing something of that caliber with two), just doing small things like going to the store or a baby meet-up raises my anxiety level and has me questioning if I can do it. My motto is always “Worst case scenario, both babies meltdown and we go home”. Fortunately, we rarely experience the worst case, and for the most part they are good and we get the job done and make it home without too much whining, and sometimes even smiles. Doing things out in the world gives me confidence to do it again, and try new things as well.

    Glad to hear you are managing to integrate Isaac into regular life. Doing things out in the world, especially things that interest us (mommas) is always satisfying, especially when the little ones do well!

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