Comments on: Moving On http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/2004/07/25/moving-on/ Glug Glug Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:28:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Sue http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/2004/07/25/moving-on/#comment-1123 Sue Wed, 31 Dec 1969 18:00:00 +0000 http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/?p=425#comment-1123 ps sorry for sounding preachie, peechie. *giggle* had to do that. ps sorry for sounding preachie, peechie.

*giggle* had to do that.

]]> By: Sue http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/2004/07/25/moving-on/#comment-1124 Sue Wed, 31 Dec 1969 18:00:00 +0000 http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/?p=425#comment-1124 i think about who else is involved in this situation with me. i'm not going to assume you're talking about a relationship because you could also be talking about a job or any other part of your life. so think about who else is being affected by your decision to NOT move on right now, and who would be affected if you DID decide to move on? Are you keeping people waiting? Are you being fair to yourself? Are you being fair to other people? If there are no negative effects to holding on and waiting, then why not just wait a little longer? Then again, when you do have that "one more perfect day" will that make a difference to your desire to move on? Will it fix the problem or just make it harder to move on? i think about who else is involved in this situation with me. i’m not going to assume you’re talking about a relationship because you could also be talking about a job or any other part of your life. so think about who else is being affected by your decision to NOT move on right now, and who would be affected if you DID decide to move on? Are you keeping people waiting? Are you being fair to yourself? Are you being fair to other people?

If there are no negative effects to holding on and waiting, then why not just wait a little longer?

Then again, when you do have that “one more perfect day” will that make a difference to your desire to move on? Will it fix the problem or just make it harder to move on?

]]> By: Orchid http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/2004/07/25/moving-on/#comment-1125 Orchid Wed, 31 Dec 1969 18:00:00 +0000 http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/?p=425#comment-1125 I'm right there with ya sister!!! I’m right there with ya sister!!!

]]> By: dearheart http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/2004/07/25/moving-on/#comment-1126 dearheart Wed, 31 Dec 1969 18:00:00 +0000 http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/?p=425#comment-1126 I am sorry to hear that you are feeling this way, but here's my $0.02...that "one more perfect day" could take two more weeks or two more years...do what you need to do now to make you happy. We love and support you, peechie! I am sorry to hear that you are feeling this way, but here’s my $0.02…that “one more perfect day” could take two more weeks or two more years…do what you need to do now to make you happy. We love and support you, peechie!

]]> By: Devon http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/2004/07/25/moving-on/#comment-1127 Devon Wed, 31 Dec 1969 18:00:00 +0000 http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/?p=425#comment-1127 I tend to leave situations when the unhappy outweighs the happy. I am a raging hedonist, though, so it makes sense for me. I tend to leave situations when the unhappy outweighs the happy. I am a raging hedonist, though, so it makes sense for me.

]]> By: Donna http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/2004/07/25/moving-on/#comment-1128 Donna Wed, 31 Dec 1969 18:00:00 +0000 http://www.worldwidewatercooler.com/?p=425#comment-1128 Well, I usually turn into a psycho bitch from hell until it's forced into my head that "one more perfect day" can't possibly happen. I don't recommend this method. Well, I usually turn into a psycho bitch from hell until it’s forced into my head that “one more perfect day” can’t possibly happen.

I don’t recommend this method.

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